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If motherhood has left you with no clue how to live outside your Lulu Aligns, the complete guide to working with a personal stylist might be just what you need.
If you’re thinking, How dare you shame me for my fashion choices!” I love my Lulu’s. Please understand; I fully get it! I didn’t start “Project Rediscover My Style” until my third kid was 4, a FULL decade after becoming a first-time mom.
The goal here is not to shame you or burn the leggings completely but to swap a day or three out of the week for intentional clothes that show yourself and the world you are worthy of investing resources (time, money, effort) into yourself.
Why I Worked with Personal Stylists (Even Though I’m Not Rich)
After becoming a mom, moving to an incredibly casual small town, and covid left me feeling very out of touch with styles and trends, I began researching Vancouver personal stylists to help rediscover my long-lost style.
My pattern goes like this. I fall in love with a piece at the store, buy things that don’t fit quite right and struggle to create outfits, so items sit in my closet because I don’t know how to work them into my wardrobe.
Also, although I have been a stay-at-home mom for a decade, I am still drawn to workwear and dressy outfits, so my day-to-day outfits lacked direction and effort, basically I had no idea how to dress for my running-around-mom lifestyle.
The Complete Guide to Working with a Personal Stylist
Because I’m such a giver, 😘 I’ve created, The Complete Guide to Working with a Personal Stylist to share what I’ve learned while working with a personal stylist over the years. (I’ve worked with three different personal stylists to date.) I hope it saves you some time and effort.
As a bonus, you can consider this post the perfect resource to help justify to yourself and your spouse why you should work with a personal stylist. 😂
I have included the names of some Vancouver personal stylists, personal shoppers and a few of my favourite online fashion stylists at the bottom of this article.
7 Reasons You Should Work with a Personal Stylist
You Matter
As moms, it’s easy to believe what we look like doesn’t matter, but if you walk around the world thinking you don’t matter, people will treat you like you don’t.
When you take time to care for yourself, your energy will shift, and you’ll carry yourself differently. Your family and the world will pick up this energy and treat you accordingly. We teach people how to treat us, and if we don’t believe we are worthy of investing in neither with those around us.
Save Time
You will save time. Often as moms, we throw on our Lulu’s because it’s fast and comfortable, but a stylist can help you find easy pull-on, more elevated, and comfortable pieces. Getting ready in the morning will be easier because you will have a streamlined wardrobe of items you love.
Save Money
You’ll save money in the long run because you won’t purchase items that aren’t right, and a stylist can help you decide which pieces to invest in.
“Style is a way to say who you are without having to speak.”
Increase Your Confidence
A stylist will help you understand what styles and colours work best for your body type and will help you create a cohesive wardrobe that reflects your style and personality.
Spice Up Your Love Life
Feeling more confident is one of the best ways to spice up your marriage. Your spouse will pick up on the shift in energy if you feel great in your clothes. It’s a gift for your partner as well. 😘
Stay In Your Zone of Genius
If fashion isn’t your passion, staying current on the latest trends feels daunting. Stylists are educated in the latest trends, so you don’t have to be. A personal stylist can be your style saviour, ensuring you’re dressed to impress and allowing you to spend your energy on things that light you up.
“Fashion is an expression of how you are feeling”
How To Prepare For Working with a Personal Stylist
Consider the following things before picking up the phone or heading to Google to search for a personal stylist.
Where Do You Need the Most Help
Think about your actual life, not your dream life. Where do you spend the most time? Where are there holes in your wardrobe? Do you have a special event or photo shoot coming up?
I needed help most in the daywear. I did pretty well for special occasions because I could justify a trip to the mall for a special occasion. It is the regular life, like working around the house, doing errands and just plain old living life, that I struggled with. I knew an upgrade here would significantly impact how I felt as I navigated life.
Budget
Get clear on your budget. Personal stylists offer everything from complete overhauls to pay-per-hour services at all price ranges.
If you have a smaller budget, you can work with someone starting to establish their career. If you are trying to prepare for family photos or a special event, the pay-per-hour service might be all that you need.
Personality
What traits are essential for you in deciding which stylist to work with? I wanted someone who was playful with fashion and whose personal style was dynamic. I also felt more comfortable working with someone who was a mother.
It’s essential to consider your personality as well. Are you someone who cares about staying current with the latest trends? Do you prefer classics, outfits that push barriers or is comfort king? Are you drawn to colours, patterns or neutrals?